The Next Move of How To Approach Women

After that first phase of seduction, you still have more work to do. If you get that first date, there is always more work to put into the situation. Even after several dates, you have to keep your momentum going. Is she really getting into you emotionally, or is she pulling away?

Although there really is no set plan in seduction, you have to think about your next move. How do you impress her after your initial date? Seduction is not in getting only that one date, but in getting her to keep that attraction. For a lot of men, they are looking for that long-term relationship with the woman of his dreams. That’s when it becomes a game of chance, luck and skill.

The Chess Game

Just in case you don’t play the game of chess, it’s a game of two armies that battle each other by strategic moves on a game board. There are times that seduction can be the same way. You make your move, and then she makes hers. Depending on where the game pieces land, there are advantages and disadvantages. With each move in the game, you have to decide and strategize where your next move will be. Quite frankly, so does she.

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If you know anything about the game, you know that there is a king and queen on each side of the board. The object, for both teams, is to capture the king. There are times that the queen may fall victim to a strategic move. You can take that as advice in seduction. If that queen falls in your game, she is lost forever. Instead there is another king to conquer. In other words, you may have lost that game as far as seduction is concerned.

There are always other players in the game. There are pawns, bishops and knights. Those are the people in your life that can either help you or block you in your attempts at seduction. Once they are out of the way, the kings and queens become vulnerable to each other.

If you can capture that Queen in a good way, the king on the other side will fall. You will have that woman of your dreams and a “check mate” in that game of chess.

The Hiccup

Of course, that game of Chess can also go wrong. If you cannot find the right moves, that queen may fall under the mercy of the wrong king. That means that she will find someone other than you. Seduction is a lot like a game, but in the game of seduction the rules are not always according to Hoyle. Sometimes you have to change the rules.

There are times when you will want to take that queen out of your game. Is she really the right woman for you? Even if you are successful in seducing her, you have to decide if she is the woman you want in your life. What attracted you to her? What does she give back to you in your life? Does she give as well as take in the relationship?

There are times that seduction goes in a direction that isn’t intended. You’ve seen stories in the news about stalkers that manage to ruin any other attempts at finding the woman that is really the woman of your dreams. So here is your fair warning once again. There are times when the “woman of your dreams” can become the “woman of your nightmares.” There are some out there that don’t take rejection very well. So think hard and long about the woman that you think will fulfill your needs, not only as a man sexually, but in a life situation. Some women take those things way too seriously. Sometimes, you have to take out that Queen in the game of Chess and let the other king win.

Location, Location, Location

You have already heard that where you meet women can make a difference in the relationship that you have with them. That is no lie. Believe it or not, the clubs and bars are where you will probably meet some of the best women and some of the worst as well.

Some of those women are there because a man did something that they consider to be wrong. Maybe he did, maybe he didn’t. But they get to that psycho point anyway. They’re just waiting to take it out on someone. (Let’s hope it isn’t you!) Others have had a hard time with other men, but just want to meet another one that is better. So you basically have a fifty-fifty chance of meeting the woman of dreams in a club. Sometimes the odds are not even that good, depending on where you go.

Domestic types of situations, like Laundromats and exercise gyms are usually a better choice. Although you may not meet as many women there, you will probably meet some that are more calm and eager for seduction and romance. In the gyms, you will find the ones that have a common interest with you, and at the Laundromats, you will meet the women are usually more domestic. In either situation, you will probably find a woman that is more stable than the ones you will meet in the clubs.

Public parks are another area where you could meet the woman of your dreams. Sometimes it’s the one that is silently reading a book while sitting on a bench having her lunch from work, or the one that is throwing a Frisbee for her dog to catch. The point is to keep your options open and to approach that attractive woman.

Where and when you meet her in the first place can set the tone for a first date. There are times when you can meet your woman in her place of work as well. For example, you could be attracted to the receptionist at your doctor’s office or the cashier at your local grocery store. There is no rule that says you can’t ask her out for a cup of coffee. So do it. Ask her. The worst that can happen is that she says “no.” The best is that she accepts your invitation. Seduction always starts with a “hello” and an introduction. But you will never know how things could shake out unless you give things a try.

How To Approach Women: The Romance after the Seduction

When you find the woman you want, it’s really important to pay attention to some important details about her. For example, if you know when her birthday is you could send some flowers or candy to her. But the better thing would be to show up in person with those.

The other thing is to keep a bit of surprise in the things that you do together. When you see a road-side sign for an event that will interest her, make note of it. Then surprise her and take her there. The point is to be sure that she is always wondering what you will do next to surprise her. Sometimes showing up with a single wildflower is enough to keep her interest in you. Remember that a lot of women love that romance.

If you can keep that romance going, your efforts at seduction will be successful. You have to remember that women are not like men. We’re satisfied with having her cook a meal, watch the game and get to bed at a decent hour. (Ok, that’s a generalization, but you know the intent.) Quite frankly, there are a lot of men that don’t think a lot about romance, but your woman does. Whether she is a new woman in your life or one that has been there for quite some time, she is still looking for that romance. There is never time when you can let that guard down. If she doesn’t find that romance with you, where will she find it?

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Remember the chess game discussed earlier? That’s right – she’ll find that romance with the other king. In other words, she will find someone else that can give her the attention she wants. That means it’s important for you to keep that romance, no matter how long you are dating or married.

Women can be fickle creatures. But men can be, too. If she finds what she wants in you, you will also find what you want in her. She will make that effort as long as you are making that effort.

Remember that women are no longer the “weaker sex” but one that is equal in their desires. As long as you can at least meet her half-way in wants and desires, you can find a long-term relationship. It is in realizing that it takes two parties and not just one that will do that. But that’s another part of seduction. If she knows what to expect in the relationship, she will bring it on. Of course, that depends on her personality, but you get the idea. Romance and truth are the two fundamentals in seduction that some men just don’t get. But now you’re one step ahead.

Is She the Right One?

There are times after the seduction that you will wonder if she really is the one that you want that long-term relationship with. It happens. There are some women that are needy and others that will step outside of the relationship to do what they want to do. That is the nature of women. Some are very independent, while other ones will depend on you for everything you can think of.

If she is the type that tells you that you have to take care of the entire household (considering you begin to live together), then there is something wrong in that relationship. You and she should be equal partners in the household in that respect. If she is the one that gives all of the orders in the household, maybe you should run for hills!

On the other hand, if she is the one that does it all for you, maybe your aren’t giving enough to the relationship. Eventually, she might come back to telling you that she does it all and you do nothing. You have to have a balance with her. If neither one of you see that balance, perhaps it’s time to move on or to work things out. Seduction is not the only stage of a relationship, but the start of one and the continuation of it.

It doesn’t matter how long the relationship is, she will still look for that romance that you had before. But to know if she’s right for you, it has to be in the needs that she feels. Some high maintenance women expect those little gifts, flowers and special nights out all the time, along with their cosmetics and designer clothes. Other women are content with some small expression of affection at different intervals, watching how you handle your finances and finding you even more attractive in the fact that you are paying attention to her as well as being responsible.

Basically, finding out if she is the right one for you depends on you. You have to decide what type of woman you want and then use your skills of seduction to keep her.

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