Special Guide Of How To Charm A Woman: The Physical Presence

The woman of your dreams is waiting for you to impress her in some way. Your physical presence is one way to do that. There are times when she may ask you to attend a function with her, like going to a particular movie or watching her child play sports. The thing is that although you may not be totally interested in the event, the fact is that you are interested in her. So go to the event, and give her the attention that she is looking for.

Just talking to her on the telephone, or asking her out to dinner doesn’t always do the trick as far as seduction is concerned. Sometimes she needs you to be where she has to go, and not always the other way around. That physical presence can be the one element of seduction that she is looking for.

What She Sees

If you are physically available in her life, the things she is looking for are the compatibility points between the two of you. If she already has children, she wants to know how well the “fit” is between you and them. Sometimes that can make or break a seductive move on your part.

She will also look at the way you take care of yourself in personal hygiene and your physical appearance. If you’re the baggy jeans and sloppy t-shirt type, she will know. Sometimes that is part of the seduction and other times it can stop it short. It depends on her personality and what she is really looking for in a man.

If you are showing up at her home to change the oil in her car, she would expect that you are wearing the older jeans and a shirt you don’t really care about. But you still want to look good for her. Then do the job you set out to do. Sometimes getting that oily stain on that old shirt will prompt her to want to wash it for you, or replace it. That’s one more “foot in the door” that makes that door open a little wider. The point is that she will always be watching your appearance to find out if you are only trying to impress her or if that is who you really are. Make no mistake in the art of  how to charm a woman – she won’t miss even the smallest detail in most cases.

What You Should Look For

Of course, that appearance thing goes both ways. Is she always in her best clothing and high heels when you show up, or is she more of the jeans and tennis shoes type of gal? You should be watching for clues about her personality in what she wears also.

If she agrees to go to a “mud bog” event with you, what does she decide to wear? If you’re that sort of guy, you know that it should be clothing that doesn’t stain from mud, dust and dirt. In other words, you are showing your “jeans and t-shirt” side, and if she has that interest she will show you the same thing.

The woman that always wears the high-end clothing and has the perfect make-up before you show up is probably one that only wants to show you her “plumage.” You have to dig a little deeper in your seduction to learn who she really is. Sometimes she ends up to be the high maintenance woman that may or may not be right for you. But no matter who she turns out to be, it is up to you to decide if a deeper relationship is right for you.

Keep the Interest

Both of you are bound to find things about each other that you are not interested in. That happens in nearly every seduction you could ask about. In fact, it happens in most marriages. The question you have to ask yourself is whether those small incompatibilities are really small or whether they are a roadblock to a relationship.

If you feel that you can get past those, then you have to take a bit of effort to keep the interest between the two of you. At this point, you just starting to learn about each other. There are times when you will never fully know that woman until years into a marriage. But for now, you can learn what will keep her interested in you.

Remember that women love the excitement of a new romance or the continuance of it. If you have learned anything about her at all, use that to find the most romantic way to present it to her. Sometimes humor can come into play, while still being seductive and romantic. For example, if you are seducing that high-maintenance woman a fine restaurant with some romantic candlelight might be the solution. If you have a budget-minded lady, a fun date might be just going out for a pizza or going to a fast-food restaurant and taking a romantic walk afterward.

Remember that seduction is an art, so it’s important to know what that particular woman likes and is looking for. Then you can build your date ideas around what she wants. Some women like the romance of flowers and candles, while other ones like the romance of clinging to you during a scary movie or showing her knowledge of the same sporting events that you like.

How To Charm A Woman – The Golden Rules

There are times that no matter how well you think you know that woman that you are seducing, there are going to be some surprises. Ask any man that you know and will you find that one to be a fact! Women are not always predictable. You have heard about the book “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus” written by John Gray. There are differences in the two sexes. So there are some rules to follow. Although this author is not sure where those rules came from, they seem to be on the money when it comes to the art of seduction.

There are some fundamental differences between the genders, given the hormone levels in women versus men and the traits that are inherent in each gender. Men like to be providers and women like to be the “mothering” sort in most cases. So the Golden Rules are in the way that each gender should treat the other. In this guide, it is how you should respond to her traits while keeping your own personality.

Vanity

As a rule, a lot of women are vain. They want to look great for their man and maintain their youth. But there are times when all of those vanity products aren’t needed. There are times when you want to see her in her natural sense. Sometimes those are the times when you can get to know her the best. Those times without all of the makeup and “fluff” of designer clothing can tell you more about her. But you have to realize that she may not want you to see her that way in your seduction. You have to remember that she is also seducing you in her own way.

When she wears that great perfume, styles her hair and puts on that designer clothing, she is trying her best to impress you as well as to have you impress her. She’s looking for your compliments. She wants to know that she is the most beautiful woman in the room, no matter where you take her.

Unlike most species on earth, women are the ones that wear all of the “plumage” to attract a mate, instead of the man. But that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t do some plumage as well. When she looks good, she wants you to look good, too. More than likely, she wants the both of you to look like the perfect couple. So feed her vanity just a bit. That’s part of seduction.

Attention

No matter what she looks like when you show up at her door for a date, you have to remember that she is always beautiful. Women love to have your full attention. While you are out, no matter where it is, she wants to know that you are paying attention to her and no one else. She wants to know that you are looking at her for how she looks, and no one else.

If you’re the type that looks around you for the next woman to seduce, stop right there. You can’t do that when you are out with her. She will notice. It will be in that distraction that any attempt of seduction for the woman on your arm can fly out the window. She wants your total attention, not the distraction of another woman.

She also loves to know that you are interested in what she is saying when you are having a conversation. Of course, there are times when you won’t be all that interested. Maybe you don’t want to know about the last art show she attended or the fact the she likes to do quilting. No matter what the subject is, show some interest. Seduction is not all about you, it’s about her. Eventually, she will ask you about your interests. So discuss them, but if she shows no interest you can move on to something else.

Just as a woman likes to have your attention, it’s a sure bet that you also want to have hers. Especially when you are trying to seduce her, you want to know that she’s paying attention to your advances and the fact that you want to know more about her. If both of you are distracted by other people, maybe you aren’t in the right setting. So try something different. Keep her attention, and pay attention to her.

Attraction

In seduction, she has to be attracted to you as well as you being attracted to her. It is not always in conversation that she finds that attraction, but also in the way you look and act. She is going to look at your appearance in the circumstance that you are in. If you’re in a fine club, she will look to see if your attire is appropriate for that setting. If you’re at a mud bog, she’ll know if you’re dressed for the bog or if you are only out to impress her.

On her end, you’ll surely know if she is dressed for the occasion. The attraction starts with the way each of you appear to the other in a given situation. Of course, if you can get that first date, the venue can change. That is one way that you can learn more about one another.

As mentioned earlier, attraction is not always in the appearance of each person or in the conversation that you have. There are scientific facts that come into play. Each one of you are more than likely producing hormones and pheromones that build that attraction. That is the nature of human copulation and reproduction. Surely, you can see where successful seduction can lead.

The initial attraction can lead to only a sexual encounter or to a long-term relationship. It is up to you to decide which one you are really after. For a lot of men, they want the sexual encounter first, and a relationship later. But for some that have grown tired of that scene, a long-term relationship is what they are seeking. The art of seduction, done properly, can help them find it.

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